Monday, November 5, 2018

Displacement, Piglet and a beautifully painful path


Displacement is painful.  This should not come as a surprise to anyone.  The catastrophe of being forcibly uprooted from home and cast out into a wilderness of a world is among the most harrowing of human tragedies.  Unfortunately we are seeing this pain lived out at a massive scale today as historic numbers of individuals suffer forced migration.  This drama of displacement has unfolded in an unprecedented scale in Lebanon where an estimated quarter of residents are displaced.  For the millions of refugees from Palestine, Syria, Iraq and other places, the pain of existing “out of place” in this world impairs every aspect of life.  The pain of displacement is not limited to the displaced.  Those hosting displaced populations, whether willingly or reluctantly, daily bear the widespread burdens it brings.  Again, we see this on display in Lebanon in profound ways.  Resources have been stressed, social cohesion has been threatened and patience has run thin under the weight of the ongoing ordeal.  That said, hosting refugees, even in large numbers, is not without the potential for benefits, but it certainly does present pressures that are felt in very real ways.  The bottom line is this: displacement is a game where there are no winners.  Everyone loses.  This all leads to a very painful predicament that I see presented all around me, including in some unexpected places.

My children have recently been enjoying the classic Disney film Winnie the Pooh. As they discover the characters and story for the first time, I have been rediscovering a familiar part of my own childhood. It’s fun to see scenes and sequences from long ago that have remained vividly in my mind.  It’s also interesting to watch with fresh lenses and find meaning in a simple children’s story that profoundly speaks to complicated issues of today. This has been the case in one particular excerpt.


The scene takes place in the aftermath of a massive flood in the Hundred Acres Woods that left our characters temporarily displaced and the pontificating Owl with no home to return to.  Pooh Bear is credited with saving Piglet from near-drowning during flood and Christopher Robin throws a hero party to celebrate the unintentional feat of rescue.  It is during this celebration of Pooh’s heroics that Eeyore arrives and takes events in an unexpected direction.  Check it out:


The pain of Piglet (and the general awkwardness felt by the other characters) reflects a sensation that is a real part of human displacement.  Displacement invariably disrupts things for those fleeing disaster and for those receiving the distressed.  The crisis arises from complicated events and proves to add layers of complications.  Displacement is never black and white, never a situation that can be cleanly cut.  The entire situation is perplexing and some react to it by erecting walls around a flimsy sense of nationalism and digging heels into an empty belief in law and order.  There is no disputing displacement’s pain, but many opt to respond to this pain but shutting it out.  We all face Piglet’s predicament in some measure (a predicament where some measure of personal sacrifice is required) and we all too often listen to the voices telling us to take a stand.  “Tell them it’s your country, your race, your culture, your way of life.”  But some choose a different way.  Some choose to be heroes.




Since its founding in 1948 Dar El Awlad has been engaged in ongoing ministry to victims of displacement.  Outreach to refugee, stateless, internally displaced and migrant children has never been a banner waving over our heads but it has always been the natural outcome of living out a mission to rescue at-risk children from desperate situations.  There’s never been a question of whether or not it should it be done, it has simply been done. Doing so has fostered a unique ministry community that testifies to 70 years of blessings. God instructs us to welcome the stranger and care for the vulnerable.  He commands this because doing so offers a glimpse of God’s dream for humanity to dwell together in the manifestation of His kingdom.  Kids Alive Lebanon has been doing it for decades and continues to find innovative ways to increase ministry to at-risk children and victims of displacement.  This has always been the right thing to do, but it has never been easy.

I have the privilege of being surrounded by a host of heroes who have taken Piglet’s path of sacrifice in some way or form.  They have opened their eyes and hearts to needs around them and have given selflessly to help children gain bits and pieces of the things they’ve lost.  This requires taking on another’s pain and feeling its sting; it means sacrificing a personal dream so that others can be in a position where they can dream.  It involves settling for a less so that another can be given more.  I have watched these individuals in action and deem each one worthy of a hero party.  I also have the privilege of being part of a place that is rooted in heroism.  Dar El Awlad is a refuge and a respite.  It is a gathering of people who harbor hardships and willingly welcome the messiness of our broken world because it wants to part of the transforming work of the gospel.  We fight back tears, face our weaknesses, and daily deal with the tensions tugging within us.   Through it all we believe in God’s core mission and the universal hope that Christ has overcome the world.  Dar El Awlad is a place where the pain of displacement is received because we know the One who can make all things new, and I highly suggest you come see it for yourself if you ever wish to see one shining example of heroism.